DeLong: Professionals live their lives based on the conversations they avoid
Tom DeLong · Thomas DeLong – Authentic Leadership (Capital Allocators, EP.18) · Jul 24, 2017 · at 24:14
Harvard Business School professor Tom DeLong explains experiential avoidance and interpersonal communication pitfalls to Ted Seides.
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“The technical term or the psychological term is called experiential avoidance, and so what we're finding is that people are living their lives based on the conversations they're not having, as opposed to the ones that they're having, and that, what that automatically does, it starts to put you back on your heels, as opposed to being on the balls of your feet, and you start to feel more like a victim, and you start to react Because it just, you just start to feel overwhelmed.”
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