Hussey: The right partner is never someone who does not choose you
Matthew Hussey · Matthew Hussey (#1 Dating Coach) - How To Find True Love · May 29, 2025 · at 46:38
Dating coach Matthew Hussey discusses relationship psychology and how to reframe heartbreak with Codie Sanchez.
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“Well, it's really important to say, if someone doesn't choose me, they cannot be my person. There's no such thing as my person is out there. They're just not choosing me. That's, that does not make sense. By definition, the right person for us is the person who sees what's valuable about us. It's the person who chooses us. It can, the right person can never be the person who doesn't choose you.”
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