Gary Vee: Financially supporting adult children signals they are losers
Gary Vaynerchuk (Gary Vee) · The Biggest Bets I Made — And How They Paid Off: Gary Vee · Jul 9, 2025 · at 14:45
Gary Vaynerchuk speaks with Codie Sanchez about common advice he gives that people resist, specifically regarding tough love and financial independence for adult children.
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“Because parents don't realize if you're paying for your kid when they're a grown adult, you're telling your kid you don't believe in them. Through your actions, not your words. They know they're a loser. Yeah. That shit hurts. You know?”
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