Manson: Confidence is comfort with failure, not expecting success
Mark Manson · The Confidence Expert: How To Build UNSHAKEABLE Self Confidence | Mark Manson · Dec 4, 2025 · at 14:08
Author Mark Manson discusses the nature of self-confidence and imposter syndrome with investor and creator Codie Sanchez.
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“Confidence isn't about believing you're gonna achieve success. It, it's a comfort with failure. It's knowing that you're gonna be okay if it doesn't turn out okay. Like, that's actually what makes you confident in a situation.”
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