Poumpouras: You cannot fix a long-standing subordinate dynamic without leaving
Evy Poumpouras · Secret Agent: How to Read Anyone and Never Get Taken Advantage Of: Evy Poumpouras · Jun 27, 2025 · at 36:19
Former Secret Service agent Evy Poumpouras addresses corporate bullying and why established patterns of mistreatment cannot be reformed from within.
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“If you're in a business environment, you've been there for years and people have just been crushing you and dominating you. There's, I want, I don't mean to be negative, but there's almost no way to fix that. You have to leave and go somewhere else and start in you and start from the beginning. Cause once you set the tone for people on how to treat you, it's done.”
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