Sutton: An asshole leaves others demeaned, de-energized, or disrespected
Bob Sutton · a16z Podcast | The Asshole Survival Guide · Jan 2, 2019 · at 2:20
Bob Sutton, Stanford professor and author of 'The Asshole Survival Guide', defines toxic workplace behavior based on its psychological impact on victims rather than intent.
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“The way I define an asshole is from the receiver's standpoint, somebody who leaves you feeling demeaned, de-energized, disrespected.”
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