De Botton: People should not bring their full selves to work
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Philosopher Alain de Botton discusses modern workplace expectations with host Harry Stebbings, critiquing the push for employees to bring their full selves to work.
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“I don't think you should bring your full self anywhere, because if we really think about what your full self is, it includes, you know, infantile bits of you when you were two, bits of you that are full of rage, bits of you that are full of envy and bitterness and confusion and et cetera, and things that are really very arduous to put in front of other people.”
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