Jun 7, 2021 · 38m · 20vc

20VC: DoorDash CEO Tony Xu on The Art of Great Leadership Today, Why The Best Give All of the Credit and Take All of the Blame & How DoorDash Have Won The Best Talent Against the Toughest Competition

Tony Xu · 26m spoken Harry Stebbings · 11m spoken
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In this episode of The Twenty Minute VC, host Harry Stebbings interviews DoorDash co-founder and CEO Tony Xu about the company's founding story, his personal upbringing, leadership philosophy, talent acquisition strategies, and long-term strategic vision.

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Harry as informed peer 2.5 Guest teaching 2.6 Guest disagreement 0.9 Harry pushing back 1.9
05100:0010:0020:0030:002:35–6:01 · Harry as informed peer 1/10 The Founding Story of DoorDash Harry asks a standard startup interview intro question requesting a succinct two-to-three minute founding aha moment. Tony gently reframes the premise, explaining that DoorDash was built on systematic observation of local merchant struggles rather than a sudden epiphany.6:01–8:43 · Harry as informed peer 2/10 Fatherhood, Curiosities, and Operating Mindsets Harry brings up background input from investor Alfred Lin and probes how Tony approaches raising kids with wealth versus effort. Tony shares pediatric insights on child learning while lightly clarifying that parenting is about supporting natural curiosity rather than running controlled experiments.8:43–11:24 · Harry as informed peer 2/10 Defining Great Leadership and Leading from the Front Harry leverages insights from early investors Sarr and Pejman to question Tony on defining great leadership. Tony reframes leadership as followership and influence rather than direct report count, emphasizing frontline operational participation.11:24–14:13 · Harry as informed peer 2/10 Persistence and Playing the Infinite Game Harry pushes back on Tony's concept of business as an infinite game, arguing that human nature requires finite milestones and celebratory stops. Tony defends the framework by distinguishing generational business endurance from finite sports competitions.14:13–18:11 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Decision-Making Frameworks and Talent Allocation Harry asks a direct and difficult question regarding timeline thresholds for managing underperforming executive stretch hires. Tony breaks down his method of reducing problem scope and aligning personnel to individual superpowers.18:11–23:05 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Recruiting Superpowers and Hiring Strategies When Harry admits to self-doubt regarding his own interview skills, Tony reassures and educates him by explaining that even top recruiters only achieve a sixty-five to seventy percent hit rate. Tony also details practical interview simulations used to test bias for action.23:05–30:37 · Harry as informed peer 4/10 Culture Evolution and Organizational Mechanisms Harry pushes back against generic corporate diversity statements by demanding concrete quantitative metrics and organizational mechanisms. Harry also demonstrates domain familiarity by introducing Keith Raboi's milkshake test framework for delegation.30:37–36:29 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Sunday Routines, Quick-Fire Round, and Strategic Vision Harry tests management assumptions by citing industry consensus that eight direct reports is the ideal span of control. Tony responds that structural models should remain flexible as long as they effectively resolve actual company problems.2:35–6:01 · Guest teaching 2/10 The Founding Story of DoorDash Harry asks a standard startup interview intro question requesting a succinct two-to-three minute founding aha moment. Tony gently reframes the premise, explaining that DoorDash was built on systematic observation of local merchant struggles rather than a sudden epiphany.6:01–8:43 · Guest teaching 2/10 Fatherhood, Curiosities, and Operating Mindsets Harry brings up background input from investor Alfred Lin and probes how Tony approaches raising kids with wealth versus effort. Tony shares pediatric insights on child learning while lightly clarifying that parenting is about supporting natural curiosity rather than running controlled experiments.8:43–11:24 · Guest teaching 3/10 Defining Great Leadership and Leading from the Front Harry leverages insights from early investors Sarr and Pejman to question Tony on defining great leadership. Tony reframes leadership as followership and influence rather than direct report count, emphasizing frontline operational participation.11:24–14:13 · Guest teaching 3/10 Persistence and Playing the Infinite Game Harry pushes back on Tony's concept of business as an infinite game, arguing that human nature requires finite milestones and celebratory stops. Tony defends the framework by distinguishing generational business endurance from finite sports competitions.14:13–18:11 · Guest teaching 3/10 Decision-Making Frameworks and Talent Allocation Harry asks a direct and difficult question regarding timeline thresholds for managing underperforming executive stretch hires. Tony breaks down his method of reducing problem scope and aligning personnel to individual superpowers.18:11–23:05 · Guest teaching 3/10 Recruiting Superpowers and Hiring Strategies When Harry admits to self-doubt regarding his own interview skills, Tony reassures and educates him by explaining that even top recruiters only achieve a sixty-five to seventy percent hit rate. Tony also details practical interview simulations used to test bias for action.23:05–30:37 · Guest teaching 3/10 Culture Evolution and Organizational Mechanisms Harry pushes back against generic corporate diversity statements by demanding concrete quantitative metrics and organizational mechanisms. Harry also demonstrates domain familiarity by introducing Keith Raboi's milkshake test framework for delegation.30:37–36:29 · Guest teaching 2/10 Sunday Routines, Quick-Fire Round, and Strategic Vision Harry tests management assumptions by citing industry consensus that eight direct reports is the ideal span of control. Tony responds that structural models should remain flexible as long as they effectively resolve actual company problems.2:35–6:01 · Guest disagreement 1/10 The Founding Story of DoorDash Harry asks a standard startup interview intro question requesting a succinct two-to-three minute founding aha moment. Tony gently reframes the premise, explaining that DoorDash was built on systematic observation of local merchant struggles rather than a sudden epiphany.6:01–8:43 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Fatherhood, Curiosities, and Operating Mindsets Harry brings up background input from investor Alfred Lin and probes how Tony approaches raising kids with wealth versus effort. Tony shares pediatric insights on child learning while lightly clarifying that parenting is about supporting natural curiosity rather than running controlled experiments.8:43–11:24 · Guest disagreement 0/10 Defining Great Leadership and Leading from the Front Harry leverages insights from early investors Sarr and Pejman to question Tony on defining great leadership. Tony reframes leadership as followership and influence rather than direct report count, emphasizing frontline operational participation.11:24–14:13 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Persistence and Playing the Infinite Game Harry pushes back on Tony's concept of business as an infinite game, arguing that human nature requires finite milestones and celebratory stops. Tony defends the framework by distinguishing generational business endurance from finite sports competitions.14:13–18:11 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Decision-Making Frameworks and Talent Allocation Harry asks a direct and difficult question regarding timeline thresholds for managing underperforming executive stretch hires. Tony breaks down his method of reducing problem scope and aligning personnel to individual superpowers.18:11–23:05 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Recruiting Superpowers and Hiring Strategies When Harry admits to self-doubt regarding his own interview skills, Tony reassures and educates him by explaining that even top recruiters only achieve a sixty-five to seventy percent hit rate. Tony also details practical interview simulations used to test bias for action.23:05–30:37 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Culture Evolution and Organizational Mechanisms Harry pushes back against generic corporate diversity statements by demanding concrete quantitative metrics and organizational mechanisms. Harry also demonstrates domain familiarity by introducing Keith Raboi's milkshake test framework for delegation.30:37–36:29 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Sunday Routines, Quick-Fire Round, and Strategic Vision Harry tests management assumptions by citing industry consensus that eight direct reports is the ideal span of control. Tony responds that structural models should remain flexible as long as they effectively resolve actual company problems.2:35–6:01 · Harry pushing back 0/10 The Founding Story of DoorDash Harry asks a standard startup interview intro question requesting a succinct two-to-three minute founding aha moment. Tony gently reframes the premise, explaining that DoorDash was built on systematic observation of local merchant struggles rather than a sudden epiphany.6:01–8:43 · Harry pushing back 1/10 Fatherhood, Curiosities, and Operating Mindsets Harry brings up background input from investor Alfred Lin and probes how Tony approaches raising kids with wealth versus effort. Tony shares pediatric insights on child learning while lightly clarifying that parenting is about supporting natural curiosity rather than running controlled experiments.8:43–11:24 · Harry pushing back 1/10 Defining Great Leadership and Leading from the Front Harry leverages insights from early investors Sarr and Pejman to question Tony on defining great leadership. Tony reframes leadership as followership and influence rather than direct report count, emphasizing frontline operational participation.11:24–14:13 · Harry pushing back 3/10 Persistence and Playing the Infinite Game Harry pushes back on Tony's concept of business as an infinite game, arguing that human nature requires finite milestones and celebratory stops. Tony defends the framework by distinguishing generational business endurance from finite sports competitions.14:13–18:11 · Harry pushing back 2/10 Decision-Making Frameworks and Talent Allocation Harry asks a direct and difficult question regarding timeline thresholds for managing underperforming executive stretch hires. Tony breaks down his method of reducing problem scope and aligning personnel to individual superpowers.18:11–23:05 · Harry pushing back 2/10 Recruiting Superpowers and Hiring Strategies When Harry admits to self-doubt regarding his own interview skills, Tony reassures and educates him by explaining that even top recruiters only achieve a sixty-five to seventy percent hit rate. Tony also details practical interview simulations used to test bias for action.23:05–30:37 · Harry pushing back 4/10 Culture Evolution and Organizational Mechanisms Harry pushes back against generic corporate diversity statements by demanding concrete quantitative metrics and organizational mechanisms. Harry also demonstrates domain familiarity by introducing Keith Raboi's milkshake test framework for delegation.30:37–36:29 · Harry pushing back 2/10 Sunday Routines, Quick-Fire Round, and Strategic Vision Harry tests management assumptions by citing industry consensus that eight direct reports is the ideal span of control. Tony responds that structural models should remain flexible as long as they effectively resolve actual company problems.

speaking balance: gold is Harry, purple is the guest (3 minute bins)

0:00 · Harry 95.5% · guest 4.5%0:00 · Harry 95.5% · guest 4.5%3:00 · Harry 14.6% · guest 85.4%3:00 · Harry 14.6% · guest 85.4%6:00 · Harry 36.2% · guest 63.8%6:00 · Harry 36.2% · guest 63.8%9:00 · Harry 23.9% · guest 76.1%9:00 · Harry 23.9% · guest 76.1%12:00 · Harry 24.1% · guest 75.9%12:00 · Harry 24.1% · guest 75.9%15:00 · Harry 12.5% · guest 87.5%15:00 · Harry 12.5% · guest 87.5%18:00 · Harry 27.8% · guest 72.2%18:00 · Harry 27.8% · guest 72.2%21:00 · Harry 8.6% · guest 91.4%21:00 · Harry 8.6% · guest 91.4%24:00 · Harry 24.1% · guest 75.9%24:00 · Harry 24.1% · guest 75.9%27:00 · Harry 8% · guest 92%27:00 · Harry 8% · guest 92%30:00 · Harry 20.6% · guest 79.4%30:00 · Harry 20.6% · guest 79.4%33:00 · Harry 14.4% · guest 85.6%33:00 · Harry 14.4% · guest 85.6%36:00 · Harry 86.2% · guest 13.8%36:00 · Harry 86.2% · guest 13.8%
Sharpest disagreement ▶ 3:04 Rejecting the single aha moment premise

Tony directly reframes Harry's prompt for a quick aha moment, explaining that real business problems require deep systemic observation rather than sudden epiphanies.

Hardest push from Harry ▶ 28:00 Demanding concrete mechanisms for culture values

Harry directly calls out generic corporate diversity claims, insisting Tony explain the exact quantitative metrics and mechanisms DoorDash uses.

Biggest teaching moment ▶ 21:00 The Michael Jordan benchmark for hiring

Tony reassures Harry's self-doubt as an interviewer by sharing wisdom from a mentor that even world-class recruiters only succeed 65 to 70 percent of the time.

Harry holds his own ▶ 25:28 Referencing Keith Raboi's Milkshake Test

Harry demonstrates domain expertise on executive onboarding dynamics by introducing Keith Raboi's small-scope delegation methodology.

the scores for every segment, with the reasoning behind each
ChapterTopicHarry as informed peerGuest teachingGuest disagreementHarry pushing backWhy
The Founding Story of DoorDash 1210 Harry asks a standard startup interview intro question requesting a succinct two-to-three minute founding aha moment. Tony gently reframes the premise, explaining that DoorDash was built on systematic observation of local merchant struggles rather than a sudden epiphany.
Fatherhood, Curiosities, and Operating Mindsets 2211 Harry brings up background input from investor Alfred Lin and probes how Tony approaches raising kids with wealth versus effort. Tony shares pediatric insights on child learning while lightly clarifying that parenting is about supporting natural curiosity rather than running controlled experiments.
Defining Great Leadership and Leading from the Front 2301 Harry leverages insights from early investors Sarr and Pejman to question Tony on defining great leadership. Tony reframes leadership as followership and influence rather than direct report count, emphasizing frontline operational participation.
Persistence and Playing the Infinite Game 2313 Harry pushes back on Tony's concept of business as an infinite game, arguing that human nature requires finite milestones and celebratory stops. Tony defends the framework by distinguishing generational business endurance from finite sports competitions.
Decision-Making Frameworks and Talent Allocation 3312 Harry asks a direct and difficult question regarding timeline thresholds for managing underperforming executive stretch hires. Tony breaks down his method of reducing problem scope and aligning personnel to individual superpowers.
Recruiting Superpowers and Hiring Strategies 3312 When Harry admits to self-doubt regarding his own interview skills, Tony reassures and educates him by explaining that even top recruiters only achieve a sixty-five to seventy percent hit rate. Tony also details practical interview simulations used to test bias for action.
Culture Evolution and Organizational Mechanisms 4314 Harry pushes back against generic corporate diversity statements by demanding concrete quantitative metrics and organizational mechanisms. Harry also demonstrates domain familiarity by introducing Keith Raboi's milkshake test framework for delegation.
Sunday Routines, Quick-Fire Round, and Strategic Vision 3212 Harry tests management assumptions by citing industry consensus that eight direct reports is the ideal span of control. Tony responds that structural models should remain flexible as long as they effectively resolve actual company problems.

Statements from this episode (13)

Assertion Not checkable as stated
DoorDash originated from a store manager turning down hundreds of orders
“If there was one, it really happened inside of a local macaroon store in Palo Alto where the founding team met a store manager who had to turn down hundreds of deliveries. She literally showed us a notebook with payment information of customers and how she had…”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 3:09
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Tony Xu's mother worked three jobs daily for 12 years post-immigration
“My parents' journey into this country, it kind of is that classic immigrant story where dad was getting his graduate degree, mom was putting food on the table because we had a couple hundred bucks in the bank, and so she worked three jobs a day for 12 years to…”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 4:43
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Many DoorDash leaders have zero direct reports
“In fact, when I think about even people at DoorDash, there are many leaders at the company that have zero direct reports, but have lots of followers because of their influence and because of how they show up and how they show their work.”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 9:29
Assertion Supported
DoorDash executives still perform deliveries and take customer support calls
“It's why in the earliest days, even to this day, all of the leaders at the company try to do all of the jobs in the early days. And actually, even to this day, that means doing deliveries. That means taking customer service calls. That means making menus for m…”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 9:50
Insight
Tony Xu says scope reduction decreases complexity when solving hard problems
“The hard part is you may not be right in defining the problem at each stage or in between each mile marker, and so when you reduce the scope, you're actually reducing the complexity and the variance of outcomes, and that way, hopefully, you have a better chanc…”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 15:24
Insight
High-potential hires need multiple role trials to find their superpower
“But especially with folks who have maybe more talent or hustle than experience, you may not know what that superpower is. They may not know what that superpower is. And so you may have to trial a couple of different assignments before you can kind of lock on t…”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 17:30
Insight
Tony Xu says the best recruiters only succeed 70% of the time
“If you're the Michael Jordan of recruiting, you're probably going to be right, 65 to 70% of the time, and this is coming from someone who's hired tens of thousands of people”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 21:02
Disclosure
DoorDash tested job candidates by having them acquire 100 customers for $20
“We would ask candidates to acquire a hundred new customers in eight hours with 20 dollars. And that was the entire interview.”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 21:42
Insight
External executives must obviously accelerate internal talent's careers to succeed
“I think the only success criteria here I've seen is you have to hire someone excellent, where it's so obvious for the person on the inside that this person on the outside can really help their careers and really grow them.”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 23:24
Insight
Tony Xu: Onboard new executives with embarrassingly small initial scopes
“But I think when the person is in the door, in order to set them up for success, you probably want to start small because of the information asymmetry of how your organization works versus how they may think your organization works is very, very large. It's al…”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 24:40
Insight
Corporate culture should iterate continuously like a software product
“I mean, just like your product, you know, I think an organization would be embarrassed if their product looked the same a year later versus today. Why is that not true for your culture? You know, maybe it changes more slowly because, you know, you're talking a…”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 26:01
Disclosure
DoorDash spent six years striving for decision-maker diversity parity
“We're almost there where the representation at the company and the representation of the decision makers are even, but we're, I mean, 2015, 20, 20, 21, so six years out of our eight years, we've been working on it. 75% of our lifetime history, and we're still …”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 28:41
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Bill Walsh's book defined DoorDash's culture of chasing excellence
“The one that has quite a lot of influence on the building of DoorDash is The Score Takes Care of Itself by Bill Walsh, and just this notion of trying to chase excellence as opposed to the scoreboard. That has been, I think, the defining history of the company …”
Tony Xu Jun 7, 2021 ▶ 31:57
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