Feb 5, 2018 · 25m · 20vc
20VC: Why Vulnerability Is A Strength In VC, 3 Core Components That Make The Most Successful VCs & How VCs and Entrepreneurs Can Build Meaningful Relationships Pre-Investment with Brian Garrett, Founding Partner @ Crosscut Ventures
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In this episode of The 20 Minute VC, Harry Stebbings interviews Brian Garrett, Founding Partner and Managing Director at Crosscut Ventures. Brian discusses the growth of Crosscut in Southern California while advocating for humility, vulnerability, and authentic relationship-building as core strengths in venture capital and startup leadership.
How this conversation actually went
Every chapter scored 0–10 on four independent dynamics. Hover any point for the reasoning behind the score. Harry holds 32.3% of the talking time here. How this is scored →
speaking balance: gold is Harry, purple is the guest (3 minute bins)
Brian directly counters the notion that arrogant brute force is necessary for success, reframing true modern leadership around servant leadership and culture.
Hardest push from Harry ▶ 8:26 Harry questions the utility of VC egoHarry challenges Brian's emphasis on humility by asking if premier VCs' ego creates a sense of hard-to-get desirability for founders.
Biggest teaching moment ▶ 10:00 Brian breaks down confidence versus arrogance using Brene BrownBrian educates the host on psychological safety, drawing from Dr. Brene Brown to explain how vulnerability functions as ultimate strength in leadership.
Harry holds his own ▶ 8:26 Harry cites top tier VCs to challenge guest narrativeHarry shows strong industry context by referencing elite investors like Peter Fenton and questioning whether arrogance serves as an effective signal in VC.
the scores for every segment, with the reasoning behind each
| Chapter | Topic | Harry as informed peer | Guest teaching | Guest disagreement | Harry pushing back | Why |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Brian Garrett's Transition to VC and the Founding of Crosscut | 2 | 3 | 1 | 0 | Harry asks an open-ended career origin question. Brian details his transition from Silicon Valley to LA and how early dealflow constraints led to founding Crosscut. | |
| Silicon Valley Dynamics vs. Building in Southern California | 4 | 2 | 1 | 3 | Harry brings up prominent VCs like Peter Fenton and Brad Feld to discuss humility, then pushes back on whether tier-one VC ego creates desirable exclusivity for founders. | |
| Vulnerability as a Strength in Startup Leadership | 3 | 3 | 1 | 3 | Harry challenges the humility paradigm by raising the Steve Jobs archetype and pointing out the real-world risks of PR leaks when founders show vulnerability. | |
| Fostering Authentic Founder-VC Relationships Pre-Investment | 4 | 2 | 1 | 2 | Harry cites partner Fred's board intimacy concept and probes whether today's hyper-competitive deal speeds prevent proper pre-investment relationship building. | |
| Quick Fire Round with Brian Garrett | 3 | 1 | 0 | 0 | Harry guides a fast-paced quickfire round covering personal philosophy, tough fundraises, and memorable LP meetings. |