Lessin: Early attraction to Facebook stemmed from familial name-face blindness
Sam Lessin · How to show up in any room with a low heart rate: Silicon Valley’s missing etiquette playbook · Jan 15, 2026 · at 15:54
Slow Ventures partner and former Facebook VP of Product Sam Lessin explains his personal struggles with remembering names during a discussion on social etiquette.
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“I actually have such a clinical problem on name face recognition that's actually runs in our family. I have this whole backstory, which is part, you know, I worked at Facebook for a long time, was really into it early on. No kidding. I think part of my early attraction to the platform was it was the first time you walk around college and you're like, I know these people, I just don't remember their names. You're like, oh my God, there's a resource I can study.”
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