Abrahams: Striving for connection over perfection frees cognitive bandwidth
Matt Abrahams · How to speak more confidently and persuasively | Matt Abrahams (professor, speaker, author) · Mar 31, 2024 · at 12:36
Matt Abrahams, Stanford lecturer and author of Think Faster, Talk Smarter, discusses how the improv principle of 'daring to be dull' reduces anxiety in spontaneous speaking.
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“Strive for connection over perfection. By daring to be dull, just get the task done. Just answer the question. Just give the feedback. Just be engaged in the small talk. And by doing that, you dial down the volume of self-evaluation, freeing up resources that can be used to really help you succeed.”
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