Kirby: 53% of Americans cannot name their grandparents
Alex Kirby · Preserving Multi-Generational Wealth Beyond the Balance Sheet · Jul 8, 2026 · at 11:46
Alex Kirby, founder and CEO of Total Family, discusses family heritage preservation and generational awareness.
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“I don't really know what legacy is going to look like In 50 years, but I hope we've made some progress on that statistic of 53% of Americans not being able to name their grandparents.”
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