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Murph: GitLab makes all meetings optional and requires agendas for invites

Darren Murph · Pay Without Borders with Alex Bouaziz (Deel), Darren Murph (GitLab), and Sondre Rasch (Safetywing) · Dec 20, 2022 · at 12:18

Darren Murph, Head of Remote at GitLab, details GitLab's meeting policy and calendar guidelines on The a16z Podcast.

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“So at GitLab, all meetings are optional, and we're very intentional about what a synchronous meeting has to have before it can even be accepted on a calendar. All work meetings have to have an agenda, no agenda, no attenda.”

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The claim, plainly

At GitLab, all synchronous work meetings are optional and require a pre-set agenda to be accepted on calendar invites.

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Assessment

GitLab's public employee handbook strictly confirms the requirement for a pre-set agenda for all work meetings ('No agenda, no attenda' policy). However, regarding optionality, the handbook and official policy documentation state that the organization strives to make meetings optional or that most meetings are optional, rather than making literally all meetings optional for every participant. Specific required roles, such as Directly Responsible Individuals (DRIs) facilitating a session or participants in key structural meetings like executive E-Group weeklies, are expected to attend unless asynchronous arrangements are made in advance.

GitLab's public handbook mandates that every work-related meeting must have an agenda attached to the calendar invite prior to the meeting ('No agenda, no attenda').
Handbook guidelines distinguish between essential participants/DRIs (who are expected to participate) and non-essential attendees who are marked optional.
Official handbook documentation states the goal is to 'strive to make meetings optional' or that 'most meetings are optional', rather than a universal rule that every meeting is optional for all employees.

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