Jan 18, 2016 · 40m · 20vc
20VC: Fred Destin @ Accel on Why Startups Fail & Founders Get Fired?
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In this episode of The 20 Minute VC, host Harry Stebbings interviews Fred Destin, General Partner at Accel, about his transition into venture capital, strategies for scaling hyper-growth startups like Deliveroo, and the complex dynamics of founder-investor relationships. Destin provides candid advice on managing board governance, handling startup failure, evaluating founder compatibility, and navigating the inherent ethical paradoxes of early-stage investing.
How this conversation actually went
Every chapter scored 0–10 on four independent dynamics. Hover any point for the reasoning behind the score. Harry holds 12.3% of the talking time here. How this is scored →
Harry as informed peer 2.5 Guest teaching 3.5 Guest disagreement 1.6 Harry pushing back 1.3
speaking balance: gold is Harry, purple is the guest (3 minute bins)
Sharpest disagreement ▶ 10:31 Fred rejects host's simplistic fundraising rule
When Harry offers a quick conclusion that founders should always raise more money than expected, Fred immediately reframes the assumption, stating it is actually about realistic milestone planning and defensive expectation setting.
Hardest push from Harry ▶ 38:11 Harry refuses deflection on unannounced investmentWhen Fred teases a new unannounced deal without naming it, Harry refuses to drop the topic and presses repeatedly for timeline details.
Biggest teaching moment ▶ 18:20 Fred explains the real systemic dynamics behind founder firingsFred thoroughly educates the host on board dynamics, demonstrating how premature revenue demands and toxic investor control mentalities cause breakdowns in trust that unfairly scapegoat CEOs.
Harry holds his own ▶ 30:17 Harry highlights key founder pain point on VC ghostingHarry cuts directly to the core grievance of the startup ecosystem by noting that missing feedback and radio silence from VCs is what founders despise most.
the scores for every segment, with the reasoning behind each
| Chapter | Topic | Harry as informed peer | Guest teaching | Guest disagreement | Harry pushing back | Why |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Fred Destin's Career Background & Transition to Venture Capital | 2 | 3 | 1 | 0 | Harry sets up the conversation warmly, citing questions from Accel colleague James Cameron to prompt Fred on scaling fast-growing portfolio companies like Deliveroo. Fred explains the microeconomics of local rollout without any friction or pushback. | |
| Why Early-Stage Startups Fail at the Seed Stage | 2 | 4 | 2 | 1 | Fred breaks down why seed startups fail, citing co-founder hiring errors and unrealistic timelines. When Harry offers a simplistic takeaway asking if founders should 'always raise more than expected', Fred reframes the point around setting realistic milestones. | |
| VC-Founder Relationships, Intimacy & Knowing When to Fold | 3 | 3 | 1 | 1 | Harry prompts Fred on how VCs uncover the true state of a startup beyond sugarcoated updates. Fred shares his philosophy of creating intimacy and open vulnerability, emphasizing the need to know when to let founders fold gracefully without guilt. | |
| Why Founders Get Fired & Rebuilding Board Governance | 1 | 4 | 3 | 0 | Harry asks why founders get fired, giving Fred room for an extended monologue on board governance. Fred candidly criticizes control-minded VCs and risk-averse angels as toxic actors while outlining how misaligned revenue pressure creates board distrust. | |
| Evaluating Founders, Strategic Alignment & Engineering Tension | 3 | 3 | 1 | 1 | Harry asks a sharp follow-up inquiring how Fred deliberately engineers disagreement with founders during pre-investment evaluation. Fred outlines his stress-testing tactics, including whiteboard strategic sessions and long drives. | |
| Navigating the Dual Role and Schizophrenia of Venture Capital | 3 | 4 | 2 | 0 | Harry asks about balancing the dual role of board member and personal friend. Fred candidly labels VCs as 'schizophrenic' due to conflicting duties as founder confidants and fiduciary fund managers, noting how poor communication harms founders. | |
| The Art and Strategy of Saying No to Founders | 3 | 4 | 1 | 3 | Harry asks about strategies for rejecting founders and presses on the founder frustration of being ghosted. Fred explains why VCs resort to boilerplate rejections and acknowledges his own occasional guilt when deals slip through the cracks. | |
| Quick Fire Round: Books, Ecosystems, and Backing Deliveroo | 3 | 3 | 2 | 4 | In a rapid-fire sequence covering books and US vs European venture ecosystems, Harry playfully grills Fred on an unannounced deal. Fred politely deflects the probing questions, keeping details vague until early January. |
Statements from this episode (23)
Destin: Finance Shifted From Hedging Risk to Aggressive Arbitrage
“And did that for about seven years, and then I guess I saw firsthand how the moved, the world of finance moved from hedging risks to arbitraging the shit out of everything.”
Destin: Startups cannot afford hiring mistakes in their first 8 to 10 key hires
“Your core eight to 10 first key hires, especially at the executive level, need to be great. You really just cannot afford to make too many hiring mistakes”
Deliveroo Is the Fastest-Growing Startup Fred Destin Has Ever Backed
“Deliveroo is the fastest growing startup I've been involved with.”
Destin: Deliveroo has almost no customer overlap with Just Eat or Delivery Hero
“We have almost no overlap with Just Eat or Delivery Hero.”
Destin: Hiring wrong co-founders is top reason seed startups fail
“The number one reason why seed companies fail is because they hired the wrong co-founders.”
Destin: Unrealistic short-term timelines cost seed startups their survival
“Your irrational expectations of what you can do in a short amount of time end up costing you the survival of your business.”
Destin: Bit9 almost ran out of money three times before succeeding
“Because some of our best companies, if I look at BitNine, one of the Atlas companies in the That is a phenomenal success story. They almost ran out of money three times”
Destin: Europe penalizes startup failure far more harshly than the US
“And I think very often, especially in Europe, Founders are being made to feel extremely guilty when things don't work, whereas in the US you find these attitudes very different, which is like, hey, we tried, it was a big ambitious problem, you know, turns out …”
Fred Destin Writes Seed Checks Solely to Back Founders' Next Startups
“I have told a couple of founders, I'm putting some money in you because I believe in you, but I really want to back your next business. And in both cases, I haven't reinvested in either of them, but I can tell you in both cases I was probably right on the busi…”
Fred Destin Has Fired Only Two Startup Founders in His Career
“So one of the great failings for me is when we have to let a founder go, and I hate doing it, and it's only happened twice in my career, and I hope it doesn't happen again.”
Founders Get Fired Primarily Due to Boardroom Trust Breakdown
“Part of the reason why founders get fired in the process of scaling is, is one of is the reason, the primary reason is a breakdown in trust at the board level.”
Destin Says European Angels Are Overly Risk-Averse and Hate Write-Offs
“Angels are sometimes the worst offenders, because angels are very afraid of losing their money in many cases, especially on the European side. Angels just hate writing shit off.”
Destin Criticizes VCs for Operating Under a Control Mindset
“VCs are very often assholes because they're in a logic of control. Their viewpoint of the world is like, Hey, you work for me. You have to deliver results. Which is, of course, completely wrong, because the reality is we're only trying to enable a project call…”
Destin: Regretful VC investments correlate with rushed founder diligence
“The investments that I regret making Are systematically the ones where I didn't spend enough time getting to know the founders. So there's an almost perfect correlation with shit where I wish I hadn't invested, and the fact that I didn't have time to build a r…”
Fred Destin Deliberately Engineers Conflict With Founders Before Investing
“So I will engineer disagreement, just so we see, like, what are we like in conflict, right? Because you never know about people until they go and get stuff.”
Destin: VC is not intellectually hard; overly smart people make terrible investors
“There's nothing fundamentally difficult intellectually about being a venture capitalist. Like, it's not like you need to be a rocket scientist to do it. In fact, people sometimes who are too smart can be terrible investors.”
Destin: Good VCs inform founders early when declining follow-on funding
“The difference between being an asshole and being someone who does their job well is you tell them early enough.”
Destin: VCs earn a bad reputation by abruptly pulling founder support
“The reason why VCs get a bad rap is because typically they'll be like, founder, supportive, founder, supportive, love the company, and then suddenly from one day to the next, they're like, actually we're not backing you. And entrepreneurs fucking hate that wit…”
Destin: Detailed VC rejection emails systematically lead to founder arguments
“So I used to write these beautiful no emails that were very, very well grounded with a lot of feedback. You know what systematically happens is people come back and they're like, you didn't get this, you didn't get that. It's like, I'm actually not trying to b…”
Fred Destin Invested $100M at Atlas, Expecting 3.5x to 4x Returns
“If you look at Atlas, I probably invested about a hundred million. You know, I think I'm going to end up being three and a half times my money, four times maybe, but it took forever for these numbers to come through.”
Destin: US VC Ecosystem is Faster and More Professional Than Europe
“I think the US is still Faster, more transparent, more professional. I think there's a better, ah, there's a better VC landscape in the US. Just people understand, like I said before, you know, the more tolerant to people failing and losing money and so forth,…”