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Erik Allebest: Scaling to $100M Revenue, 150M Members and 700 People, All with No Vc Funding | E1113 · 20VC with Harry Stebbings

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In this deep-dive interview on the 20VC podcast, Chess.com co-founder and CEO Erik Allebest shares the unconventional blueprint behind scaling his platform to over $100 million in revenue without venture capital. He details Chess.com's organic growth tactics, remote work model, and progressive wealth-sharing strategies, alongside profound personal insights on leadership, self-awareness, and fatherhood.

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Harry as informed peer 3.2 Guest teaching 3.8 Guest disagreement 1.9 Harry pushing back 3.3
05100:0020:0040:001:00:001:20:001:14–5:00 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Early Entrepreneurial Hustle and the DNA of Founders Harry proposes a theory that exceptional founders demonstrate entrepreneurial hustle early in life. Erik broadly agrees while gently noting later-in-life exceptions, leading Harry to tease him about lacking venture investor biases.5:00–9:37 · Harry as informed peer 4/10 Stanford GSB and Learning to Be Self-Aware Erik shares feedback he received at Stanford GSB about being overly dominant. Harry relates with his own feedback about being direct and asks Erik for advice on balancing concision with relationship building.9:37–12:55 · Harry as informed peer 2/10 Acquiring Chess.com: The $56,000 Domain Name Erik explains the progression from teaching chess to acquiring the Chess.com domain name for $56,000 in a bankruptcy auction. Harry asks about the domain's impact on early growth.12:55–17:33 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Building the Community, Finding Product-Market Fit, and Defining the Mission Erik outlines how Chess.com built community before playing features and defined its mission. Harry challenges standard corporate mission statements as mostly fluffy and meaningless.17:33–19:52 · Harry as informed peer 5/10 The Myth of Non-VC Funding: Trying and Failing to Raise Capital Erik reveals they tried and failed to raise VC funding for five years because investors thought the market was too small. Harry plays devil's advocate, calculating exit multiples to argue VCs may have been right mathematically.19:52–24:46 · Harry as informed peer 2/10 Self-Worth, Digital Micro-Dosing, and the Ayahuasca Retreat Erik discusses his detachment from money and lessons from an Ayahuasca retreat about digital micro-dosing on Slack and email. Harry asks reflective questions about grounding self-worth outside work.24:46–27:52 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Bootstrapping Chess.com: Doing the Opposite of Silicon Valley Erik contrasts his bootstrapped, remote-first model with Silicon Valley's capital-heavy approach. Harry jokes about being rendered obsolete as a venture investor.27:52–30:13 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Creative Customer Acquisition: A 100% Commitment to Content Erik details their strict avoidance of paid acquisition in favor of continuous content investment across emerging platforms. Harry inquires about transition timing between platforms.30:13–34:27 · Harry as informed peer 4/10 Partnering with Creators and Letting Young Voices Lead Erik details creator partnerships and step-back management that lets younger team members lead social strategy. Harry compares the model to Logan Paul's Prime flywheel.34:27–37:04 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Product Inflection Points: Puzzle Rush and the Psychology of Early Wins Erik tells the story of creating Puzzle Rush and explains why early wins heavily impact retention. Harry lightheartedly probes the ethical dilemma of pairing beginners against easy bots.37:04–39:46 · Harry as informed peer 4/10 Transitioning to a Smart Metrics Balance Erik explains how Chess.com traditionally relied on intuition over key metrics. Harry presses on how investor General Atlantic handles this approach and how success can be measured without metrics.39:46–42:28 · Harry as informed peer 4/10 Key Performance Indicators and Subscriber Stickiness Erik breaks down key metrics like DAU, CURRENT retention, and the ratio of learners to players. Harry probes the distinction between 30-day retention and habit-based metrics.42:28–45:09 · Harry as informed peer 4/10 The Impact of Cultural Events on Subscription Cohorts Erik outlines how events like Queen's Gambit brought high-converting subscriber cohorts. Harry pushes back on whether viral moments attract low-quality users who churn rapidly.45:09–47:41 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Capitalizing on Black Swan Moments Erik attributes growth to preparing product features right before black swan events hit. Harry asks what Erik would have done differently to capitalize even more.47:41–50:27 · Harry as informed peer 4/10 Navigating Secondary Sales and Liquidity Erik clarifies that bringing in General Atlantic was secondary liquidity to buy out earlier passive investors rather than a primary capital raise, sharing how he rejected investor preferences.50:27–55:28 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Regret and the Realities of Institutional Investors Erik expresses deep regret over ever selling initial secondary equity. Harry asks him to defend fully remote work against common criticisms of lost productivity and culture.55:28–58:04 · Harry as informed peer 2/10 Attracting Passion Over Paychecks Erik explains that Chess.com deliberately filters out candidates seeking top-of-market compensation, hiring instead for mission and lifestyle fit.58:04–1:02:46 · Harry as informed peer 5/10 Global Compensation and Navigating Capitalism Erik critiques wealth flow under modern capitalism. Harry pushes back with technical challenges around global equity distribution, including multi-state K-1 tax filings and vesting issues.1:02:46–1:05:39 · Harry as informed peer 4/10 Geopolitics, Workplace Politics, and Ethical Boundaries Erik describes blocking investor transactions until tens of millions were set aside for non-equity employees, warning General Atlantic he will do it again. Harry directly challenges Erik on whether this confrontational style risks alienating board partners.1:05:39–1:09:10 · Harry as informed peer 2/10 Fatherhood, Autonomy, and the Balance of Power Erik recounts receiving an FBI notification regarding a dark web hit contract after taking a stand against Russia's invasion of Ukraine, as well as managing young fatherhood.1:09:10–1:11:36 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Parenting Wisdom and the Positivity Ratio Erik details granting his 15-year-old son total autonomy rather than enforcing strict rules. Harry pushes back, arguing children inherently need structure and parental guardrails.1:11:36–1:16:03 · Harry as informed peer 2/10 Validation in Marriage and the Vulnerable Leader Erik shares relationship principles centered on emotional validation before problem-solving. Harry admits his own difficulty showing vulnerability.1:16:13–1:18:54 · Harry as informed peer 3/10 Work, Escapism, and Seeking True Self-Acceptance Harry candidly confesses to working non-stop out of fear of mediocrity. Erik gently advises Harry to cultivate self-acceptance rather than using work as an emotional buffer.1:18:54–1:22:53 · Harry as informed peer 2/10 Quick-Fire Questions: Milestones, Mortality, and Motivation In a quick-fire round, Erik reflects on becoming a millionaire at 28, his fear of mortality, and the timeless appeal of chess over the next decade.1:14–5:00 · Guest teaching 2/10 Early Entrepreneurial Hustle and the DNA of Founders Harry proposes a theory that exceptional founders demonstrate entrepreneurial hustle early in life. Erik broadly agrees while gently noting later-in-life exceptions, leading Harry to tease him about lacking venture investor biases.5:00–9:37 · Guest teaching 4/10 Stanford GSB and Learning to Be Self-Aware Erik shares feedback he received at Stanford GSB about being overly dominant. Harry relates with his own feedback about being direct and asks Erik for advice on balancing concision with relationship building.9:37–12:55 · Guest teaching 3/10 Acquiring Chess.com: The $56,000 Domain Name Erik explains the progression from teaching chess to acquiring the Chess.com domain name for $56,000 in a bankruptcy auction. Harry asks about the domain's impact on early growth.12:55–17:33 · Guest teaching 3/10 Building the Community, Finding Product-Market Fit, and Defining the Mission Erik outlines how Chess.com built community before playing features and defined its mission. Harry challenges standard corporate mission statements as mostly fluffy and meaningless.17:33–19:52 · Guest teaching 4/10 The Myth of Non-VC Funding: Trying and Failing to Raise Capital Erik reveals they tried and failed to raise VC funding for five years because investors thought the market was too small. Harry plays devil's advocate, calculating exit multiples to argue VCs may have been right mathematically.19:52–24:46 · Guest teaching 5/10 Self-Worth, Digital Micro-Dosing, and the Ayahuasca Retreat Erik discusses his detachment from money and lessons from an Ayahuasca retreat about digital micro-dosing on Slack and email. Harry asks reflective questions about grounding self-worth outside work.24:46–27:52 · Guest teaching 4/10 Bootstrapping Chess.com: Doing the Opposite of Silicon Valley Erik contrasts his bootstrapped, remote-first model with Silicon Valley's capital-heavy approach. Harry jokes about being rendered obsolete as a venture investor.27:52–30:13 · Guest teaching 3/10 Creative Customer Acquisition: A 100% Commitment to Content Erik details their strict avoidance of paid acquisition in favor of continuous content investment across emerging platforms. Harry inquires about transition timing between platforms.30:13–34:27 · Guest teaching 3/10 Partnering with Creators and Letting Young Voices Lead Erik details creator partnerships and step-back management that lets younger team members lead social strategy. Harry compares the model to Logan Paul's Prime flywheel.34:27–37:04 · Guest teaching 4/10 Product Inflection Points: Puzzle Rush and the Psychology of Early Wins Erik tells the story of creating Puzzle Rush and explains why early wins heavily impact retention. Harry lightheartedly probes the ethical dilemma of pairing beginners against easy bots.37:04–39:46 · Guest teaching 4/10 Transitioning to a Smart Metrics Balance Erik explains how Chess.com traditionally relied on intuition over key metrics. Harry presses on how investor General Atlantic handles this approach and how success can be measured without metrics.39:46–42:28 · Guest teaching 4/10 Key Performance Indicators and Subscriber Stickiness Erik breaks down key metrics like DAU, CURRENT retention, and the ratio of learners to players. Harry probes the distinction between 30-day retention and habit-based metrics.42:28–45:09 · Guest teaching 4/10 The Impact of Cultural Events on Subscription Cohorts Erik outlines how events like Queen's Gambit brought high-converting subscriber cohorts. Harry pushes back on whether viral moments attract low-quality users who churn rapidly.45:09–47:41 · Guest teaching 3/10 Capitalizing on Black Swan Moments Erik attributes growth to preparing product features right before black swan events hit. Harry asks what Erik would have done differently to capitalize even more.47:41–50:27 · Guest teaching 4/10 Navigating Secondary Sales and Liquidity Erik clarifies that bringing in General Atlantic was secondary liquidity to buy out earlier passive investors rather than a primary capital raise, sharing how he rejected investor preferences.50:27–55:28 · Guest teaching 5/10 Regret and the Realities of Institutional Investors Erik expresses deep regret over ever selling initial secondary equity. Harry asks him to defend fully remote work against common criticisms of lost productivity and culture.55:28–58:04 · Guest teaching 4/10 Attracting Passion Over Paychecks Erik explains that Chess.com deliberately filters out candidates seeking top-of-market compensation, hiring instead for mission and lifestyle fit.58:04–1:02:46 · Guest teaching 4/10 Global Compensation and Navigating Capitalism Erik critiques wealth flow under modern capitalism. Harry pushes back with technical challenges around global equity distribution, including multi-state K-1 tax filings and vesting issues.1:02:46–1:05:39 · Guest teaching 4/10 Geopolitics, Workplace Politics, and Ethical Boundaries Erik describes blocking investor transactions until tens of millions were set aside for non-equity employees, warning General Atlantic he will do it again. Harry directly challenges Erik on whether this confrontational style risks alienating board partners.1:05:39–1:09:10 · Guest teaching 4/10 Fatherhood, Autonomy, and the Balance of Power Erik recounts receiving an FBI notification regarding a dark web hit contract after taking a stand against Russia's invasion of Ukraine, as well as managing young fatherhood.1:09:10–1:11:36 · Guest teaching 4/10 Parenting Wisdom and the Positivity Ratio Erik details granting his 15-year-old son total autonomy rather than enforcing strict rules. Harry pushes back, arguing children inherently need structure and parental guardrails.1:11:36–1:16:03 · Guest teaching 4/10 Validation in Marriage and the Vulnerable Leader Erik shares relationship principles centered on emotional validation before problem-solving. Harry admits his own difficulty showing vulnerability.1:16:13–1:18:54 · Guest teaching 4/10 Work, Escapism, and Seeking True Self-Acceptance Harry candidly confesses to working non-stop out of fear of mediocrity. Erik gently advises Harry to cultivate self-acceptance rather than using work as an emotional buffer.1:18:54–1:22:53 · Guest teaching 3/10 Quick-Fire Questions: Milestones, Mortality, and Motivation In a quick-fire round, Erik reflects on becoming a millionaire at 28, his fear of mortality, and the timeless appeal of chess over the next decade.1:14–5:00 · Guest disagreement 2/10 Early Entrepreneurial Hustle and the DNA of Founders Harry proposes a theory that exceptional founders demonstrate entrepreneurial hustle early in life. Erik broadly agrees while gently noting later-in-life exceptions, leading Harry to tease him about lacking venture investor biases.5:00–9:37 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Stanford GSB and Learning to Be Self-Aware Erik shares feedback he received at Stanford GSB about being overly dominant. Harry relates with his own feedback about being direct and asks Erik for advice on balancing concision with relationship building.9:37–12:55 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Acquiring Chess.com: The $56,000 Domain Name Erik explains the progression from teaching chess to acquiring the Chess.com domain name for $56,000 in a bankruptcy auction. Harry asks about the domain's impact on early growth.12:55–17:33 · Guest disagreement 2/10 Building the Community, Finding Product-Market Fit, and Defining the Mission Erik outlines how Chess.com built community before playing features and defined its mission. Harry challenges standard corporate mission statements as mostly fluffy and meaningless.17:33–19:52 · Guest disagreement 3/10 The Myth of Non-VC Funding: Trying and Failing to Raise Capital Erik reveals they tried and failed to raise VC funding for five years because investors thought the market was too small. Harry plays devil's advocate, calculating exit multiples to argue VCs may have been right mathematically.19:52–24:46 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Self-Worth, Digital Micro-Dosing, and the Ayahuasca Retreat Erik discusses his detachment from money and lessons from an Ayahuasca retreat about digital micro-dosing on Slack and email. Harry asks reflective questions about grounding self-worth outside work.24:46–27:52 · Guest disagreement 2/10 Bootstrapping Chess.com: Doing the Opposite of Silicon Valley Erik contrasts his bootstrapped, remote-first model with Silicon Valley's capital-heavy approach. Harry jokes about being rendered obsolete as a venture investor.27:52–30:13 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Creative Customer Acquisition: A 100% Commitment to Content Erik details their strict avoidance of paid acquisition in favor of continuous content investment across emerging platforms. Harry inquires about transition timing between platforms.30:13–34:27 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Partnering with Creators and Letting Young Voices Lead Erik details creator partnerships and step-back management that lets younger team members lead social strategy. Harry compares the model to Logan Paul's Prime flywheel.34:27–37:04 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Product Inflection Points: Puzzle Rush and the Psychology of Early Wins Erik tells the story of creating Puzzle Rush and explains why early wins heavily impact retention. Harry lightheartedly probes the ethical dilemma of pairing beginners against easy bots.37:04–39:46 · Guest disagreement 2/10 Transitioning to a Smart Metrics Balance Erik explains how Chess.com traditionally relied on intuition over key metrics. Harry presses on how investor General Atlantic handles this approach and how success can be measured without metrics.39:46–42:28 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Key Performance Indicators and Subscriber Stickiness Erik breaks down key metrics like DAU, CURRENT retention, and the ratio of learners to players. Harry probes the distinction between 30-day retention and habit-based metrics.42:28–45:09 · Guest disagreement 2/10 The Impact of Cultural Events on Subscription Cohorts Erik outlines how events like Queen's Gambit brought high-converting subscriber cohorts. Harry pushes back on whether viral moments attract low-quality users who churn rapidly.45:09–47:41 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Capitalizing on Black Swan Moments Erik attributes growth to preparing product features right before black swan events hit. Harry asks what Erik would have done differently to capitalize even more.47:41–50:27 · Guest disagreement 3/10 Navigating Secondary Sales and Liquidity Erik clarifies that bringing in General Atlantic was secondary liquidity to buy out earlier passive investors rather than a primary capital raise, sharing how he rejected investor preferences.50:27–55:28 · Guest disagreement 3/10 Regret and the Realities of Institutional Investors Erik expresses deep regret over ever selling initial secondary equity. Harry asks him to defend fully remote work against common criticisms of lost productivity and culture.55:28–58:04 · Guest disagreement 2/10 Attracting Passion Over Paychecks Erik explains that Chess.com deliberately filters out candidates seeking top-of-market compensation, hiring instead for mission and lifestyle fit.58:04–1:02:46 · Guest disagreement 3/10 Global Compensation and Navigating Capitalism Erik critiques wealth flow under modern capitalism. Harry pushes back with technical challenges around global equity distribution, including multi-state K-1 tax filings and vesting issues.1:02:46–1:05:39 · Guest disagreement 4/10 Geopolitics, Workplace Politics, and Ethical Boundaries Erik describes blocking investor transactions until tens of millions were set aside for non-equity employees, warning General Atlantic he will do it again. Harry directly challenges Erik on whether this confrontational style risks alienating board partners.1:05:39–1:09:10 · Guest disagreement 2/10 Fatherhood, Autonomy, and the Balance of Power Erik recounts receiving an FBI notification regarding a dark web hit contract after taking a stand against Russia's invasion of Ukraine, as well as managing young fatherhood.1:09:10–1:11:36 · Guest disagreement 3/10 Parenting Wisdom and the Positivity Ratio Erik details granting his 15-year-old son total autonomy rather than enforcing strict rules. Harry pushes back, arguing children inherently need structure and parental guardrails.1:11:36–1:16:03 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Validation in Marriage and the Vulnerable Leader Erik shares relationship principles centered on emotional validation before problem-solving. Harry admits his own difficulty showing vulnerability.1:16:13–1:18:54 · Guest disagreement 2/10 Work, Escapism, and Seeking True Self-Acceptance Harry candidly confesses to working non-stop out of fear of mediocrity. Erik gently advises Harry to cultivate self-acceptance rather than using work as an emotional buffer.1:18:54–1:22:53 · Guest disagreement 1/10 Quick-Fire Questions: Milestones, Mortality, and Motivation In a quick-fire round, Erik reflects on becoming a millionaire at 28, his fear of mortality, and the timeless appeal of chess over the next decade.1:14–5:00 · Harry pushing back 3/10 Early Entrepreneurial Hustle and the DNA of Founders Harry proposes a theory that exceptional founders demonstrate entrepreneurial hustle early in life. Erik broadly agrees while gently noting later-in-life exceptions, leading Harry to tease him about lacking venture investor biases.5:00–9:37 · Harry pushing back 2/10 Stanford GSB and Learning to Be Self-Aware Erik shares feedback he received at Stanford GSB about being overly dominant. Harry relates with his own feedback about being direct and asks Erik for advice on balancing concision with relationship building.9:37–12:55 · Harry pushing back 2/10 Acquiring Chess.com: The $56,000 Domain Name Erik explains the progression from teaching chess to acquiring the Chess.com domain name for $56,000 in a bankruptcy auction. Harry asks about the domain's impact on early growth.12:55–17:33 · Harry pushing back 4/10 Building the Community, Finding Product-Market Fit, and Defining the Mission Erik outlines how Chess.com built community before playing features and defined its mission. Harry challenges standard corporate mission statements as mostly fluffy and meaningless.17:33–19:52 · Harry pushing back 6/10 The Myth of Non-VC Funding: Trying and Failing to Raise Capital Erik reveals they tried and failed to raise VC funding for five years because investors thought the market was too small. Harry plays devil's advocate, calculating exit multiples to argue VCs may have been right mathematically.19:52–24:46 · Harry pushing back 3/10 Self-Worth, Digital Micro-Dosing, and the Ayahuasca Retreat Erik discusses his detachment from money and lessons from an Ayahuasca retreat about digital micro-dosing on Slack and email. Harry asks reflective questions about grounding self-worth outside work.24:46–27:52 · Harry pushing back 3/10 Bootstrapping Chess.com: Doing the Opposite of Silicon Valley Erik contrasts his bootstrapped, remote-first model with Silicon Valley's capital-heavy approach. Harry jokes about being rendered obsolete as a venture investor.27:52–30:13 · Harry pushing back 2/10 Creative Customer Acquisition: A 100% Commitment to Content Erik details their strict avoidance of paid acquisition in favor of continuous content investment across emerging platforms. Harry inquires about transition timing between platforms.30:13–34:27 · Harry pushing back 2/10 Partnering with Creators and Letting Young Voices Lead Erik details creator partnerships and step-back management that lets younger team members lead social strategy. Harry compares the model to Logan Paul's Prime flywheel.34:27–37:04 · Harry pushing back 2/10 Product Inflection Points: Puzzle Rush and the Psychology of Early Wins Erik tells the story of creating Puzzle Rush and explains why early wins heavily impact retention. Harry lightheartedly probes the ethical dilemma of pairing beginners against easy bots.37:04–39:46 · Harry pushing back 5/10 Transitioning to a Smart Metrics Balance Erik explains how Chess.com traditionally relied on intuition over key metrics. Harry presses on how investor General Atlantic handles this approach and how success can be measured without metrics.39:46–42:28 · Harry pushing back 3/10 Key Performance Indicators and Subscriber Stickiness Erik breaks down key metrics like DAU, CURRENT retention, and the ratio of learners to players. Harry probes the distinction between 30-day retention and habit-based metrics.42:28–45:09 · Harry pushing back 4/10 The Impact of Cultural Events on Subscription Cohorts Erik outlines how events like Queen's Gambit brought high-converting subscriber cohorts. Harry pushes back on whether viral moments attract low-quality users who churn rapidly.45:09–47:41 · Harry pushing back 3/10 Capitalizing on Black Swan Moments Erik attributes growth to preparing product features right before black swan events hit. Harry asks what Erik would have done differently to capitalize even more.47:41–50:27 · Harry pushing back 3/10 Navigating Secondary Sales and Liquidity Erik clarifies that bringing in General Atlantic was secondary liquidity to buy out earlier passive investors rather than a primary capital raise, sharing how he rejected investor preferences.50:27–55:28 · Harry pushing back 4/10 Regret and the Realities of Institutional Investors Erik expresses deep regret over ever selling initial secondary equity. Harry asks him to defend fully remote work against common criticisms of lost productivity and culture.55:28–58:04 · Harry pushing back 2/10 Attracting Passion Over Paychecks Erik explains that Chess.com deliberately filters out candidates seeking top-of-market compensation, hiring instead for mission and lifestyle fit.58:04–1:02:46 · Harry pushing back 5/10 Global Compensation and Navigating Capitalism Erik critiques wealth flow under modern capitalism. Harry pushes back with technical challenges around global equity distribution, including multi-state K-1 tax filings and vesting issues.1:02:46–1:05:39 · Harry pushing back 6/10 Geopolitics, Workplace Politics, and Ethical Boundaries Erik describes blocking investor transactions until tens of millions were set aside for non-equity employees, warning General Atlantic he will do it again. Harry directly challenges Erik on whether this confrontational style risks alienating board partners.1:05:39–1:09:10 · Harry pushing back 3/10 Fatherhood, Autonomy, and the Balance of Power Erik recounts receiving an FBI notification regarding a dark web hit contract after taking a stand against Russia's invasion of Ukraine, as well as managing young fatherhood.1:09:10–1:11:36 · Harry pushing back 5/10 Parenting Wisdom and the Positivity Ratio Erik details granting his 15-year-old son total autonomy rather than enforcing strict rules. Harry pushes back, arguing children inherently need structure and parental guardrails.1:11:36–1:16:03 · Harry pushing back 2/10 Validation in Marriage and the Vulnerable Leader Erik shares relationship principles centered on emotional validation before problem-solving. Harry admits his own difficulty showing vulnerability.1:16:13–1:18:54 · Harry pushing back 3/10 Work, Escapism, and Seeking True Self-Acceptance Harry candidly confesses to working non-stop out of fear of mediocrity. Erik gently advises Harry to cultivate self-acceptance rather than using work as an emotional buffer.1:18:54–1:22:53 · Harry pushing back 2/10 Quick-Fire Questions: Milestones, Mortality, and Motivation In a quick-fire round, Erik reflects on becoming a millionaire at 28, his fear of mortality, and the timeless appeal of chess over the next decade.

speaking balance: gold is Harry, purple is the guest (3 minute bins)

0:00 · Harry 47.3% · guest 52.7%0:00 · Harry 47.3% · guest 52.7%3:00 · Harry 14.1% · guest 85.9%3:00 · Harry 14.1% · guest 85.9%6:00 · Harry 25.3% · guest 74.7%6:00 · Harry 25.3% · guest 74.7%9:00 · Harry 22.9% · guest 77.1%9:00 · Harry 22.9% · guest 77.1%12:00 · Harry 18.7% · guest 81.3%12:00 · Harry 18.7% · guest 81.3%15:00 · Harry 25.2% · guest 74.8%15:00 · Harry 25.2% · guest 74.8%18:00 · Harry 33.3% · guest 66.7%18:00 · Harry 33.3% · guest 66.7%21:00 · Harry 4.6% · guest 95.4%21:00 · Harry 4.6% · guest 95.4%24:00 · Harry 24.7% · guest 75.3%24:00 · Harry 24.7% · guest 75.3%27:00 · Harry 29.2% · guest 70.8%27:00 · Harry 29.2% · guest 70.8%30:00 · Harry 24.7% · guest 75.3%30:00 · Harry 24.7% · guest 75.3%33:00 · Harry 15.4% · guest 84.6%33:00 · Harry 15.4% · guest 84.6%36:00 · Harry 35% · guest 65%36:00 · Harry 35% · guest 65%39:00 · Harry 12.4% · guest 87.6%39:00 · Harry 12.4% · guest 87.6%42:00 · Harry 25.5% · guest 74.5%42:00 · Harry 25.5% · guest 74.5%45:00 · Harry 27.4% · guest 72.6%45:00 · Harry 27.4% · guest 72.6%48:00 · Harry 5.2% · guest 94.8%48:00 · Harry 5.2% · guest 94.8%51:00 · Harry 39.7% · guest 60.3%51:00 · Harry 39.7% · guest 60.3%54:00 · Harry 12.7% · guest 87.3%54:00 · Harry 12.7% · guest 87.3%57:00 · Harry 22.3% · guest 77.7%57:00 · Harry 22.3% · guest 77.7%1:00:00 · Harry 25.3% · guest 74.7%1:00:00 · Harry 25.3% · guest 74.7%1:03:00 · Harry 26.9% · guest 73.1%1:03:00 · Harry 26.9% · guest 73.1%1:06:00 · Harry 22.2% · guest 77.8%1:06:00 · Harry 22.2% · guest 77.8%1:09:00 · Harry 23.1% · guest 76.9%1:09:00 · Harry 23.1% · guest 76.9%1:12:00 · Harry 17.8% · guest 82.2%1:12:00 · Harry 17.8% · guest 82.2%1:15:00 · Harry 33.4% · guest 66.6%1:15:00 · Harry 33.4% · guest 66.6%1:18:00 · Harry 27.5% · guest 72.5%1:18:00 · Harry 27.5% · guest 72.5%1:21:00 · Harry 37.3% · guest 62.7%1:21:00 · Harry 37.3% · guest 62.7%
Sharpest disagreement ▶ 1:03:31 Erik demands secondary pool for non-equity workers and warns GA

Erik forcefully describes blocking secondary liquidity deals until tens of millions were allocated to non-equity staff, warning current board partner General Atlantic that he intends to do it again.

Hardest push from Harry ▶ 18:50 Harry challenges Erik on VC return calculations

Harry refuses to accept Erik's narrative that VCs were foolish to pass on Chess.com, using financial multiples to demonstrate that VC return requirements justified their rejections.

Biggest teaching moment ▶ 22:45 Erik re-frames daily work tools as micro-dosing mind-altering drugs

Erik educates Harry on his realization from an Ayahuasca retreat, showing how everyday notifications on Slack and email function like micro-dosing mind-altering substances.

Harry holds his own ▶ 1:00:50 Harry cites regulatory and tax barriers to global profit sharing

Harry counters Erik's idealistic view on corporate wealth redistribution by citing explicit legal complexities like K-1 tax filings across 37 states and international jurisdictions.

the scores for every segment, with the reasoning behind each
ChapterTopicHarry as informed peerGuest teachingGuest disagreementHarry pushing backWhy
Early Entrepreneurial Hustle and the DNA of Founders 3223 Harry proposes a theory that exceptional founders demonstrate entrepreneurial hustle early in life. Erik broadly agrees while gently noting later-in-life exceptions, leading Harry to tease him about lacking venture investor biases.
Stanford GSB and Learning to Be Self-Aware 4412 Erik shares feedback he received at Stanford GSB about being overly dominant. Harry relates with his own feedback about being direct and asks Erik for advice on balancing concision with relationship building.
Acquiring Chess.com: The $56,000 Domain Name 2312 Erik explains the progression from teaching chess to acquiring the Chess.com domain name for $56,000 in a bankruptcy auction. Harry asks about the domain's impact on early growth.
Building the Community, Finding Product-Market Fit, and Defining the Mission 3324 Erik outlines how Chess.com built community before playing features and defined its mission. Harry challenges standard corporate mission statements as mostly fluffy and meaningless.
The Myth of Non-VC Funding: Trying and Failing to Raise Capital 5436 Erik reveals they tried and failed to raise VC funding for five years because investors thought the market was too small. Harry plays devil's advocate, calculating exit multiples to argue VCs may have been right mathematically.
Self-Worth, Digital Micro-Dosing, and the Ayahuasca Retreat 2513 Erik discusses his detachment from money and lessons from an Ayahuasca retreat about digital micro-dosing on Slack and email. Harry asks reflective questions about grounding self-worth outside work.
Bootstrapping Chess.com: Doing the Opposite of Silicon Valley 3423 Erik contrasts his bootstrapped, remote-first model with Silicon Valley's capital-heavy approach. Harry jokes about being rendered obsolete as a venture investor.
Creative Customer Acquisition: A 100% Commitment to Content 3312 Erik details their strict avoidance of paid acquisition in favor of continuous content investment across emerging platforms. Harry inquires about transition timing between platforms.
Partnering with Creators and Letting Young Voices Lead 4312 Erik details creator partnerships and step-back management that lets younger team members lead social strategy. Harry compares the model to Logan Paul's Prime flywheel.
Product Inflection Points: Puzzle Rush and the Psychology of Early Wins 3412 Erik tells the story of creating Puzzle Rush and explains why early wins heavily impact retention. Harry lightheartedly probes the ethical dilemma of pairing beginners against easy bots.
Transitioning to a Smart Metrics Balance 4425 Erik explains how Chess.com traditionally relied on intuition over key metrics. Harry presses on how investor General Atlantic handles this approach and how success can be measured without metrics.
Key Performance Indicators and Subscriber Stickiness 4413 Erik breaks down key metrics like DAU, CURRENT retention, and the ratio of learners to players. Harry probes the distinction between 30-day retention and habit-based metrics.
The Impact of Cultural Events on Subscription Cohorts 4424 Erik outlines how events like Queen's Gambit brought high-converting subscriber cohorts. Harry pushes back on whether viral moments attract low-quality users who churn rapidly.
Capitalizing on Black Swan Moments 3313 Erik attributes growth to preparing product features right before black swan events hit. Harry asks what Erik would have done differently to capitalize even more.
Navigating Secondary Sales and Liquidity 4433 Erik clarifies that bringing in General Atlantic was secondary liquidity to buy out earlier passive investors rather than a primary capital raise, sharing how he rejected investor preferences.
Regret and the Realities of Institutional Investors 3534 Erik expresses deep regret over ever selling initial secondary equity. Harry asks him to defend fully remote work against common criticisms of lost productivity and culture.
Attracting Passion Over Paychecks 2422 Erik explains that Chess.com deliberately filters out candidates seeking top-of-market compensation, hiring instead for mission and lifestyle fit.
Global Compensation and Navigating Capitalism 5435 Erik critiques wealth flow under modern capitalism. Harry pushes back with technical challenges around global equity distribution, including multi-state K-1 tax filings and vesting issues.
Geopolitics, Workplace Politics, and Ethical Boundaries 4446 Erik describes blocking investor transactions until tens of millions were set aside for non-equity employees, warning General Atlantic he will do it again. Harry directly challenges Erik on whether this confrontational style risks alienating board partners.
Fatherhood, Autonomy, and the Balance of Power 2423 Erik recounts receiving an FBI notification regarding a dark web hit contract after taking a stand against Russia's invasion of Ukraine, as well as managing young fatherhood.
Parenting Wisdom and the Positivity Ratio 3435 Erik details granting his 15-year-old son total autonomy rather than enforcing strict rules. Harry pushes back, arguing children inherently need structure and parental guardrails.
Validation in Marriage and the Vulnerable Leader 2412 Erik shares relationship principles centered on emotional validation before problem-solving. Harry admits his own difficulty showing vulnerability.
Work, Escapism, and Seeking True Self-Acceptance 3423 Harry candidly confesses to working non-stop out of fear of mediocrity. Erik gently advises Harry to cultivate self-acceptance rather than using work as an emotional buffer.
Quick-Fire Questions: Milestones, Mortality, and Motivation 2312 In a quick-fire round, Erik reflects on becoming a millionaire at 28, his fear of mortality, and the timeless appeal of chess over the next decade.

Statements from this episode (42)

Disclosure
Allebest: Chess.com is his third chess-focused business
“Chess.com is my third chess business, which is totally absurd to say.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 9:52
Disclosure
Allebest: Chess.com prioritized immediate monetization over typical Silicon Valley spending
“Everything I saw going on in Silicon Valley was like spend, spend, spend. We did the opposite. We thought about monetizing immediately.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 0:24
Insight
Allebest: Raising venture capital psychologically feels like earning revenue for founders
“I think raising money feels a lot like earning money. It's a self-validation.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 0:33
Opinion
Stebbings: Pursuing an MBA is a low-risk move driven by security
“An MBA is, Is a non-risky move. It is seeking security, actually, by definition.”
Harry Stebbings Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 4:47
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Allebest was rejected from every graduate school he applied to in 2001
“I didn't get in anywhere because it was like right after the.com You know, bubble boost bubble burst in 2001. And I got rejected to every school”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 5:43
Insight
Allebest: Directness requires building relationship credit through positive interactions
“It's not an either, or it's not like be nice and then don't be direct. It's like you can be both. And I think a lot of it has to do with like the number of deposits and withdrawals you make in any relationship. And so it's like your bank account. So you need t…”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 8:09
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Allebest's pre-Chess.com e-commerce site reached $2M in annual revenue
“We were doing Between one and two million dollars a year in, I think a little over two million a year in revenue and was making good money.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 11:42
Assertion Not publicly verifiable
Allebest bought the Chess.com domain for $56,000 in a bankruptcy auction
“56,000 dollars.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 11:58
Insight
Allebest: Exact-match domains were essential for web startups, unlike today
“Ridiculously large role, especially at the beginning and the beginning sets the tone for later. Now, I mean, in today's world, if we hadn't done it, if you, would you have to start on chess.com? Probably not, but given the time that we started and how it worke…”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 12:22
Assertion Supported
Allebest: COVID and The Queen's Gambit 5xed Chess.com overnight
“When COVID came and the Queen's Gambit hit and our numbers like five X overnight, it grew the game of chess five X.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 16:58
Assertion Supported
Allebest: VCs including Peter Thiel rejected Chess.com for five years
“We tried for like the first Five years to raise money. We tried many times. We tried angels. We tried, I met Peter Thiel. I went, I met a bunch of different angels. I went up and down. I used all my connections up and down Silicon, you know, Sand Hill road to …”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 18:04
Opinion
Allebest: Silicon Valley wrongly believed the chess market was capped at $10M
“Well, I mean, now knowing what I know, I mean, chess is a much bigger market. I don't think I did anything wrong. I think everybody was wrong. I think consensus, including from me, was that chess was too small, and so why would you invest in a business that yo…”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 18:51
Assertion Partly supported
Allebest: A mobile snow survival game made $400M in nine months
“There's just, there's a mobile game that launched literally last year in the last nine months that in that, in those nine months did four hundred million dollars in revenue, some kind of like snow survival game or something.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 28:15
Disclosure
Allebest: Chess.com instituted a firm rule against paid user acquisition
“We'd totally been burned on, on paid acquisition, and we pretty much made You know, a very firm rule that we weren't going to do paid acquisition. And so instead we said, we're going to take any money that we have and we're going to put it into content because…”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 29:03
Assertion Supported
Allebest: Chess.com was live streaming on Justin.tv before Twitch existed
“We were doing live streaming back when it was justin.tv long before it was Twitch.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 32:35
Assertion Supported
Allebest: Short-form video completely drove Chess.com's latest growth wave
“Our most recent wave was Completely driven off of short forms, whether it's YouTube shorts, Instagram, you know stuff or reels or, you know, TikTok. It is totally driven.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 33:45
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Allebest: Winning first chess game doubles or triples user retention
“It pains me to say this, but somebody who wins their first game of chess is two to three times more likely to stay around than someone who loses their first game.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 36:10
Prediction Held up
Allebest: Chess.com pushes new users to play coach bots first
“What we're trying to do is push people toward not playing a person first, but knowingly playing a coach bot personality where they will win and feel good But not to just throw them in the pool of players against other people where there's a fifty-fifty chance …”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 36:40
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Allebest: Chess.com historically operated without metrics-driven management
“We are, we have not historically been a metrics-driven business. We are, we've been a heart and mission and chess-driven business.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 37:30
Assertion Supported
Allebest: Chess.com offers free play while monetizing educational features
“Our business is funded by learners. Playing is free. Learning is Behind the paywall.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 41:26
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Allebest outlines Chess.com daily user engagement across playing, puzzles, and lessons
“You know, it's actually a strangely low number, but it's like, 60% of our active users come in on a day and play. Half of them will do a, will do puzzles. So half of that number will do puzzles, and then half of that number again will do lessons. Game review i…”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 41:59
Assertion Supported
Allebest: Chess.com has 150M+ registered members and 15M weekly active users
“So just, we could say we've got about a 150, a little over a 150, a hundred and sixty million registered members. We have Take a weekly active users is probably around 10% of that. Around fifteen million. About 10% of that are active subscribers.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 42:40
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Allebest: Most Chess.com paid users choose annual billing and highest tier
“The majority of people pay yearly. And most people do tend toward our highest paid product because they get the most access and our retention on paid users is really good.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 43:15
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Allebest: Queen's Gambit subscribers converted at higher rates but retained worse
“They subscribed at a higher rate, but then retained at a lower rate, to your point. And that kind of, we swallowed that, but it's not like it went up and back down. It went up and stayed up significantly. So yes, it was net massive growth, but yes, they later …”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 44:50
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Allebest: Younger Chess.com users convert to paid subscriptions at lower rates
“But now you have a whole bunch of high school kids and junior high kids and younger people getting into chess, and they subscribe at a way lower rate. And so registration numbers went through the roof, but our subscriber numbers didn't follow.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 45:21
Disclosure
Allebest: PokerStars founder Esai Scheinberg acquired over 20% of Chess.com
“His name is Esai Scheinberg, founder of PokerStars. He loves chess. He wants to meet you. I meet with him. He's like, hey, I want to buy in. I want 50% of the company. We're like, get out of here. We're like, no chance, no way. And so, and he's like, okay, I'l…”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 49:26
Disclosure
Allebest: Chess.com's General Atlantic deal was 100% secondary equity
“That's when we met GA, but again, it was to buy out existing equity. It was not to raise money. There was no primary money put in whatsoever. It was all just buying founders' equity and equal ownership.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 50:17
Disclosure
Allebest regrets selling equity to Chess.com's first investor
“Totally. Every day. Every day I think about it. I have so few regrets in life, but that is one.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 50:31
Opinion
Stebbings: No job role is executed better remotely than in person
“Because I can't think of a role which is done better remotely, and people disagree with me. And I'm always open to have my mind changed.”
Harry Stebbings Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 53:04
Insight
Allebest: Geographic hiring constraints shrink talent pools and inflate compensation
“First of all, talent is all over the world. And if you are geographically confined on talent, you have a smaller hiring pool and you are now competing in ways, you know, that are hard. It's hard to compete against these massive dangled comp packages in certain…”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 53:14
Insight
Allebest: Remote work removes performative behavior and drives employee loyalty
“They don't feel trapped in the office. They don't feel like they have to show up early to do FaceTime. They don't feel like they have to be the last one to leave. They don't have to pretend like they're busy. It's so life enabling to them that they're grateful…”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 54:39
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Allebest: Chess.com intentionally filters out applicants seeking top market salary
“We are nobody's highest paying job. We immediately filter for highest pay. Like if you are looking for your highest paying job, it will not be chess.com.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 55:56
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Allebest personally hired the first 300 to 400 Chess.com employees
“I probably hired the first. 300 to 400 people myself who worked at the company.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 58:27
Disclosure
Allebest set early salaries by asking candidates what they needed to live
“I would just say to them, Hey, how much money do you need to do this job? And if we can make that, we'll do it. And if not, I'll let you know, but really, what do you need to do this? Because I'm not going to make you an offer. Cause I don't know your life. I …”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 58:34
Assertion Supported
Allebest: Global remote market access has dramatically raised Serbian tech wages
“What's been great is to see globalizing, like people wages have gone up because someone who used to in Serbia work for nine dollars an hour. Now they have a global marketplace to work so that their wages have gone up a ton.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 59:10
Opinion
Allebest: Investor returns are disproportionate to value created by workers
“Look at the people who invest in there in the finance industry and look at the, where the value flows versus where the work is being done. And it's just disproportionate.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 1:00:11
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Allebest: Tax prep for tiny global equity stakes exceeds equity value
“The moment you are an equity owner, you have a K one in 37 states and 12 countries and the tax bill alone for managing the equity, tiny equity stake you have can be worth more than the equity itself.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 1:01:24
Assertion Not publicly verifiable
Allebest forced exiting investors to pool tens of millions for staff
“When our PokerStars investor, you know, the Sheinberg family, when they exited to GA, I said, I am going to block this transaction as hard as I can, unless We set aside a huge percentage comparatively of the sale. Everybody is going to pay. I think it was seve…”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 1:03:32
Disclosure
Allebest: Chess.com avoids taking corporate stances on political issues
“We are not out there trying to have a stand on any particular issues, but our belief is that chess is for everyone, and that's an inclusive message.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 1:07:20
Disclosure
Stebbings: Fear of mediocrity prevents pursuing life beyond work
“I worry that I will be mediocre if I have anything else.”
Harry Stebbings Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 1:16:14
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Allebest became a millionaire at age 28 selling his second business
“When I sold the second business, and I had a seven-figure Bank statement.”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 1:19:00
Prediction Not checkable as stated
Allebest: Chess will remain the preeminent strategy game as media proliferates
“People go back to the classics and for a little bit of just like safety. I mean, my kids listen to music from generations past because there's something that's like just classic about that. And I think that chess will be the fallback Of the greatest strategy g…”
Erik Allebest Feb 7, 2024 ▶ 1:22:27

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▶ Threatened by Russia 😱🇷🇺 · 20VC with Harry Stebbings (@1:05:29) ▶ How Chess.com built their best product ♟️🥇 · 20VC with Harr (@0:41) ▶ How much did Chess.com REALLY make from Queen’s Gambit? 🤔💵 (@44:03) ▶ Full Story of Chess.com with CEO #ErikAllebest ♟️ · 20VC wit (@0:00) ▶ First Live Chess Tournament ♟️💵 · 20VC with Harry Stebbings (@32:37)
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