Tech founders are inherently responsible for how users use their products
Whitney Wolfe Herd · Small changes with big impact (with Bumble's Whitney Wolfe Herd) | Masters of Scale · Oct 27, 2023 · at 12:55
Bumble founder and Tinder co-founder Whitney Wolfe Herd reflects on the unintended societal consequences of tech platforms and product design.
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“What I learned from my time at Tinder was the minute you encourage someone to use a piece of technology, You are inherently responsible.”
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