Vora: Shrank her presence to appear more likable early at Facebook
Ami Vora · Making an impact through authenticity and curiosity | Ami Vora (CPO at Faire, ex-WhatsApp, FB, IG) · Jun 23, 2024 · at 48:48
Ami Vora describes her reaction to early career feedback at Facebook warning that intelligence did not matter if colleagues did not like her.
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“I kind of went out of my way to be more likable, which for me ended up being like Shrinking myself a little bit and not being so aggressive, not being so opinionated, kind of being more unobjectionable. And the weird part is that it kind of worked for a long time. Like people who were more likely to work with me, they were more likely to say nice things. I mean, I took this to extremes. I wore earth tones for like two years because I was just like, I gotta fade back a little bit.”
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