Colonna: Teams without self-inquiry repeat dysfunctions from their families of origin
Jerry Colonna · How have I been complicit in creating the conditions I say I don’t want? | Jerry Colonna · May 8, 2025 · at 1:12:16
Jerry Colonna, executive coach and CEO of Reboot, discusses why leadership teams break down and the psychological origins of group dysfunction.
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“Without the individual radical self-inquiry skills. Groups tend to be condemned to repeating patterns, oftentimes of their family of origin.”
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