Eyal: Ask managers to prioritize your calendar instead of saying no
Nir Eyal · Strategies for becoming less distractible and improving focus | Nir Eyal · Dec 29, 2023 · at 1:06:39
Author Nir Eyal explains why the common productivity advice to 'just say no' is flawed for employees managing up.
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“The worst piece of personal productivity advice is, if you want to be better at time management, you need to learn how to say no. What kind of stupid advice is that? Only a tenured professor who can't get fired would give you that kind of stupid advice. If you tell your boss no, you're going to get fired. That's dumb. You don't tell your boss no. You ask your boss to help you prioritize. That is your boss's most important job is to prioritize. So you're not saying no. You're saying, here's my calendar. Here's this list of stuff you've asked me to do. Help me prioritize.”
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