Dicks: Answering 'how are you doing' with 'great' is a wasted opportunity
Matthew Dicks · How to tell better stories | Matthew Dicks (Storyworthy) · Dec 15, 2023 · at 47:26
Storytelling coach Matthew Dicks explains how to use everyday small-talk questions strategically to build connection.
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“You know, if someone asks you, how are you doing today? If you say I'm doing great, you've just really screwed it up. That's the stupidest answer you can offer, right?”
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