Lichaw: Uncover subconscious career goals by reverse-engineering a vivid future vision
Donna Lichaw · How to discover your superpowers, own your story, and unlock personal growth | Donna Lichaw · Feb 25, 2024 · at 1:13:06
Executive coach Donna Lichaw answers how coaches help leaders uncover subconscious career goals and aspirations they struggle to articulate.
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“Start with the ending. Come up with how you want things to turn out and then work your way back and start as far out as you want. It could be, you know, decades from now. It could be five years from now. It could be three years from now. It could be a year from now. It could be a quarter from now. You could do all the above. And really imagine, close your eyes. Imagine you're there. Engage all your senses. What do you hear? What do you smell? What do you see? Who do you see? What do you feel emotionally, physically? And what are you doing? What have you accomplished? What's amazing? And then if you've got something exciting, Go back to the beginning and then figure out, imagine how you got there and just write that journey out and think of it as, if you think of it as an experimental roadmap, then start thinking, all right, what's the first thing I want to need to learn to know if this is right? Work your way towards that and onwards.”
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